This morning I had an MRI early in the morning. I had scheduled it early enough to finish and be at work on time, but that didn't happen. I waited to register at the hospital for so long. So, of course I didn't make it to work at 8. It wasn't a problem for them, but it was for me. I just started the day off and never regained my balance.
I can't tell you how many times in the last few weeks I have wondered why I can't move to the beach and open a surf shop. Why? I long for a life style and a pace of life that will offer me more! More time. More Zen. More mothering. More meditating. More being. So much much more!
At the same time I keep pushing myself at work to carry on- hold the fraying ropes of having a smaller staff with an equal - if not increased- amount of work to do. Why? Why don't I back off? Why don't I have a serious conversation about what is practical and reasonable? Why do I always want to see how much I can accomplish? Why do I use this as a measure of success in a way I can't turn away from it?
I have a reasonable view of what will not happen at work. There aren't promotions to earn, pay raises to secure, there aren't career goals to be attained. It is just a challenge to see what I can make happen, what needle I can move, and what recognition I might receive. But, again, refer to the sentence before- my true opportunity is to prove something to myself, and what could I really prove to myself? Is chasing this *whatever it is* really going to bring anything to me? I sure don't come home feeling fulfilled.
Why don't I just move to the beach? Watching the sun rise and set, seeing the ocean wave, the wind blow- that would be awe inspiring.
And I want some awe.
So, MRI over and done. Test results to come- sometime.
Treatment this week.
PET/CT to be scheduled.
I just feel like I am in a funk! Something feels wrong. Is it the place I am in? Is it the physical place? The state, city, town, job? Is it a metaphorical place? An emotional or spiritual place? Is it nerves that are being felt in this weird way because I am working so hard at not getting crazed with worry or stress?
UGH!!! I would like to say a vacation is in order, but I don't dare use time off this early in the year when I have so much ahead. And, there are always sick days with the kids. Maybe I need to be like Bob, "Take a VACATION! A VACATION FROM MY PROBLEMS".
Maybe I should wear a loud Hawaiian print shirt, drink fruity drinks, and pretend that is what I am doing every night this week. Now- there is an idea. I can do that, and still be the employee, mom, housekeeper, dinner maker. As long as I am feeling off balance...
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Hey Kel...
All ok? Been a bit distracted in this neck of the woods but see you are waiting on tests..... Thinking of you...
xoxox
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